When should you bother hosting a birthday party? 1, 2 or 3 years of age?

How exciting it is when a baby reaches 1 year old.  For the parents this is a cause for celebration. In my experience a 1 year old does not know or appreciate the significance of a birthday party.  Most 1 year olds prefer to play with the wrapping paper, rather than the gift.  1 year olds spend most of their time sleeping and eating, why put yourself through the stress of organising, cleaning and cooking for a party? I recommend parents simply invite a few friends over to celebrate their survival. 
 

Two year olds will appreciate 'party food' like cake or chipies, but not most party activities like; pass-the-parcel, musical chairs etc. Again, for a two year old, I suggest low key - limited kiddy entertainment (if any), some cake, and a few familiar faces to share the successful survival of the parents.  
 
A good age to have a birthday party is 3 years old. 3 year old children have a good appreciation and understanding of what a 'birthday party' is and are likely to enjoy party entertainment and attention.  Go all out - bouncing castles, face painting, party food, wiggle music, a petting zoo, slippery slides, the whole hog if you want.  They'll love it.
 

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About Rene

 

Rene Rees is known as ‘Brisbane’s Baby Whisperer’. She is a registered nurse, a child health nurse, a registered mid-wife, a mother and a grandmother of four. She is a member of the Royal College of Nursing Australia and has over 40 years front-line experience working with and supporting babies, children and parents.

In the last thirteen years, Rene Rees has helped over 65,000 clients.

When working with babies, Rene does not teach control crying. 

Rene emphasises the importance of HOW and WHY a baby cries, not how long.